Do you have any questions?

 

प्रश्नः, प्रश्न, 'கேள்விചോദ്യം (chodyam), 'Prashna' -ప్రశ్న, প্রশ্ন, प्रश्नः, प्रश्न,ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ(Praśne), પ્રશ્ન, سوال (sawal) - just a question!

If questions are sharp arrows or the powerful Astras let loose from the quiver, I am the archer stringing them and shooting them with glee one by one on those facing them in an examination!

Yes, as a teacher, I frame my questions with a lot of enthusiasm and with certain objectives , but I am not responsible for the metaphor ascribed to me! I don't think of myself as a warrior to fight and vanquish my enemies.

However, there is this interesting yet an embarrassing depiction of me that used to circulate among the students who had to face my question paper. It was sometimes deliberately picturised in this way by my colleagues; a device to make the students get serious and study! (It appeared so!). I used to feel the side of my head to see if I had grown horns and surreptitiously move my tongue within my mouth to feel if any tooth has grown longer! For, in the (supposedly) playful comments of my colleagues, in their tone and the words left unsaid, I could see myself as one asura/monster!

Ah... but this brought more questions - to eliminate doubts/ to seek clarity/to solve a problem/to 'agree to disagree' with clarity and to show (humbly, of course) that I have some knowledge on the subject (of how to frame assessment and evaluation questions)!

Am I not challenging the young minds to think, analyse and look at a problem/issue from different angles? My questions, I think, don't burden the students to practice cramming multitude of facts in their memory bank!

I am not throwing open the platform for a debate about that! (I am afraid there may be many students and fellow teachers waiting there to pounce on me!! Why take an unnecessary risk!)

"Why is that squirrel squeaking so urgently?

How will the clear blue sky appear now to someone far away across the ocean?

Why do these two men fight in the street?

What does that monkey feel when that man forces him to do back flips and somersaults innumerable times?"

These and countless other questions used to crowd my brain and clamour for my attention when I was a young girl.

I have moved through different places, different time and context and lived different experiences but the questions continue- different ones though!

So, when I have to put together questions to continuously assess and evaluate the learning levels and of course to reflect on my teaching, I was guided by intuition and my understanding of where I expect students to be at the end of this teaching.

I sincerely continue this pattern with the 'teachers-to-be' whom I train. Their reaction/response? " They have never come across such questions until now in their life!!" They need extra time to read and comprehend the questions."

But I see a sharpness in their expression and a bright excited look in their eyes that tell me that they love the challenge, rather their brain cells are charged with a new surge of energy!

What do you think? Do I hear a question from you?


A season for colours, scents and to more promises!

 As I keep observing, I sense a keen awareness within me about the environment. I am attuned to the subtle change in the texture of soil under my feet or the sudden shift in the air that surrounds me. That is when I notice and bond with
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all my brethren in my ecosystem; I smile and laugh when I can sense their joy in the new dawn; I sway gently to myself when I see the leaves , the birds and flowers dance to welcome spring. Perhaps, I am looking for the spring blossoms unconsciously that everywhere I look there is this magnificent array of colours. When I walk under the cluster of neem trees, I inhale deeply the sweet scent of the small white flowers. The memories of association to the smell, flash those happy days of youth in my mind's screen. 

I chance upon an ad by Singapore Airlines - 'Sound of Singapore Airlines', A symphony of flowers'. The tagline itself is musical! Consider the words the ad uses: "If flowers could speak, how would they sound?"; " Taking the voices of ten native flowers..." Honouring their 'Batik art and the design on the Sarong Kebaya of the cabin crew, they have brought a modern version of Batik art and the signature music is soft and just engulfs you in warm soft breeze and subtle scents. 

This along with the pictures of all the colourful blooms that I receive from friends influence my kolam art. I am no expert in bringing alive the sounds of flowers with colours! This is my impression and dedicate this piece of writing to all the remarkable ladies of Sangamitra and particularly to my friend, Sudha. 


I am sharing my kolam here, but this space among the women of Sangamitra for sharing Kolam belongs to Sudha, I know.  It is just an offering to the universe for letting me connect with you all! 


From Vasanth to Grishma to Varsha....

The ancient tradition of this land recognised six stages/phases in the annual cycle of weather changes. The classical literature of the sub continent celebrates nature in all its aspects - the scorching Sun is as glorious as the balmy colourful spring or the cool air of the Hemant (autumn). 

 The flora and fauna enhanced the narration of the human emotions; the keen observation of every being around them brought the appreciation that they were part of the whole creation; and all the animals, birds, trees, flowers, the air, earth and the rain were their kinsfolk; each being loved to live in harmony with all other beings. This idea may sound highly romantic or idealistic, but this is my perspective when I read and enjoy these classical creations. 

In the past, I had never noticed the onset of Spring or the season of Vasanth keenly as the larger part of the year is hot here. We are located well within the tropics and close to the Equator. But now, I feel and experience every small change in the flow and speed of the wind. Each slight shift in the supporting and holding feel of the earth beneath my feet reverberates in a sharp manner. I am able to recognise how even a small blade of grass, the creeping centipede, and the rustling leaves of the Peepal tree standing close to my balcony, get ready to receive the changes in the air around them. 



The plants and trees shoot new leaves, and flowers bloom in riot of colour all around me. There is a subtle lilt to the chirping of the birds. The bird songs are like the singing of the singer, who has suddenly found her confidence and shed her shyness. 
     
The pictures that friends share of their gardens have enhanced  this awareness. After I see these, so many thoughts associated with seasons emerge in my mind. I keep thinking of the descriptions of seasons and different time of the day in Sangam literature (Tamizh). The collection of poems from the broad period between 3rd century BCE to 350 CE is known as Sangam literature. We get to know a lot of the socio-cultural life of the people inhabiting present day Tamil Nadu and Kerala. The poems depicting human emotions, mainly love, were composed in the backdrop of five kinds of terrain - mountains, forest or wooded land, arid land, plains mainly given to agricultural activities and sea and coastal areas. The narration of these stories used the flora and fauna of the region as symbols to hint upon the emotions. 
Each verse - four lines or six lines - is a complete short film with 2 or 3 frames. There is no one word or syllable that is redundant. One poet compares the leaves of Nochi(நொச்சி) (Chinese chaste tree) to the feet of peacock and the soft falling of the colourful cluster of flowers (glowing like sapphires) during night. The point of focus here is the keen sense of alertness with which the lady and her friend (सखी) were waiting to hear from the lover.
( I thank Palaniyappan Vairam Sarathy for this detail from his blog 'Karka..Nirka', a blog on Tamizh literature.)
When my mind is filled with thoughts of seasons and the natural rhythms, this one word, like a refrain, hits my ears in waves. So I pause and listen... Ritusmaharam' is the word and the 'Barahmasa miniature paintings flash before my eyes. 
The tradition of closely drawing from natural events and objects to describe human stories and emotions was a widely prevalent practice all over this subcontinent. Ritusamharam is a beautiful poetic

creation of 'Kavi Kalidasa in Sanskrit. It roughly translates as 'Medley of seasons' or 'Garland of seasons'. The poem is divided into six main chapters- each chapter assigned to one season.  Yes, the literary tradition mentions six seasons - north or south.   
(Kālidāsa was a Classical Sanskrit author who is often considered ancient India's greatest playwright and dramatist. Many of us have heard of the names of his famous works like 'Abhijnanashakuntalam', Raghuvamsam and vikramorvashiyam , I hope.) 

  The equivalent six seasons in Tamizh were  known as 'Ilavenil' ( இளவேனில்), 'Mudhuvenil' ( முதுவேனில்) , Kaar (கார்), Kulir(குளிர்), munpani (முன் பனி) and  Pinpani (பின் பனி) respectively. 
Coming back to Kalidasa, one of the greatest magic weavers with words, this work is considered one of his most lively creations. Each of the seasons is described as a pair of lovers experiencing changes in their relations, as the changing seasons of India. The poem starts with summer. In this time of extreme heat, one gets joy through mangoes and the cool moonlit nights. There is a description of how young women try to entice their men. Satyam Jayati's translation interprets the opening lines which speak of summer thus:
"Now is the time of heat! A raging sun
Burns through the day, till pleasant night
Cool and refreshing spreads its sable veil.
The sleeping surface of the limpid pools
Is oft disturbed by plunging bathers, faint
With heat, with amorous dalliance tired."

With powerful imagery the poet brings forces of nature like the scorching sun, streaming rain, frosty and biting cold, the dark moisture-laden clouds, rivers overflowing and rushing to the sea and the numerous variety of birds and animals. 

Barah indicates number 12 and 'masa' is month. Barahmasa miniatures depict the cycle of seasons through the 12 months and its deep impact on the lovelorn heart. As someone remarked it is  poetry meeting art. 
Now comes the question - " But where do we see six seasons? We, in this land of monsoon , can easily recognise only three changes - from summer to monsoon to winter. 


In cooler places, we can see the onset of spring, that we do not normally recognise in the south. "
Each small shift in the pattern has been observed, experienced and narrated by our ancestors; they aesthetically and practically divided the 12 months into six seasons of two months each. Every being in the diverse ecosystem is able to feel it, attune itself to the changing rhythm and shift in the environment. (But, sadly, we have lost that ability to feel deeply and intensely, I think.)

Thanks to all my friends (particularly the dynamic 'Sangamitra' and exuberant Girijeswari) who pause to observe the celebrations in nature and share it with me - the burst of colours and the shiny tender leaves, the chirping birds, blue sky and fluttering butterflies.


















                                                                                                       
                                                                                                                      











Within & Without

 She is the link between one thought and the other; she is the conduit through which my senses connect to the life outside. She remains still in the moment yet flows from one day into another, filling my time and space. She was an amazing woman who nurtured me, loved me, pushed me, admonished me , made fun of me and she was there in all my difficult times and is still there when I am at the crossroads.

That is my grandmother. I remember the moment, when I clearly communicated my preference to stay with her rather than go with my parents to another place. What could have prompted that four year old to move away from the love of parents to live with the grandparents?

I could have been attracted by the big house filled with people with some interesting activity going on almost always, the legendary cooking skills of my Patti (grand -mom) or her sensory rich story telling;  but there was a pull/connection that was beyond the power of words between her and myself. 

Abiding by the traditions of the period (the 1930s) she was married off just as she was entering her teens. She had not seen her husband before the marriage. Her in-laws family was a big joint family with a typical patriarchal structure. 

When she had to be formally invited and brought into her newly acquired home, there were demands for diamond earpieces and nose stud. The usual negotiations, the voiceless husband who placed obedience to elders and the patriarch as the highest attribute and the uncertain waiting period had all created a deep impact on the 16 year old young woman. She was blessed to be surrounded by brave and wise women and particularly her aunt (wife of father's elder brother - (काकी/ பெரியம்மா) who taught her to recognise her self worth and how to hit a home run when life threw her a curveball. She had an analytical mind and was gifted with a photographic memory. She was so methodical, great at planning the little details and rational in her approach to people and events. Her photographic memory and the sharp brain enhanced her story-telling sessions. 

(How I loved the dark nights with the sounds of the city slowly winding down, the only voice used to be Patti's. Lying next to her on both sides, my brother and myself used to demand that she faced us while narrating the war between Rama and Ravana or the childhood exploits of Krishna. She used to deal with the sibling rivalry, with an innate sense of humour.)

I have lost count of the number of times she has narrated the story of her aunt, giving a great declaration to the patriarchs of the family, and the elder and junior mother-in-laws -" She is no more our daughter but your daughter-in-law. We have given all that we can as wealth to support her. This very same young woman that you now look down upon, will be your nurturer and you all will be looking up to her in the coming years." I remember patti telling me how this great grand mother advised her to stand firm yet show love and respect to all of them as they were to be her people. 




She never lost her cool when her husband completely ignored her for days together. Her self confidence and conviction in what is right turned him around and all the elders - not only her in-laws but even thatha's (grand father ) uncle and aunt, who were looked after by her in their old age. With the passage of time, the patriarch of the household, the uncle used to come and ask her opinion on many issues, I have heard . 



She was tall for her generation of women and was always neatly turned out in her nine yards saree. Even after cooking a feast for about 50 people, she would remain fresh with no hair out of place. Her management, financial skills and planning were amazing! She never compromised on the daily rules and disciplinary routine till the end but that did not cause trouble to others. There was no blind faith and rituals in her life and she had beautifully sketched the nuances and layers of each of the festivals we used to celebrate at home. 

Her classy and subdued style of dressing up had its appeal to the third generation too. My elder daughter, during her marriage, insisted on patti's supervision of her hair do and dressing up.    

There was never a moment in her life when she could heave a sigh and feel relieved of her difficulties. Her only son (my mama) had a developmental disorder (with hindsight, we make a guess it could be autism spectrum disorder) and her daughter (my mother) was physically not a very healthy person and had occasional depressions as well. She had to confront the people at home to consider medical help for her son. Without awareness about these conditions, people lacked sensitivity and empathy to deal with such disorders. she managed to find her own procedures to engage her son and let him grow in his own pace. She very well knew that worrying about what would happen to him after she was dead and gone was futile. None of these challenges hampered her zest for life. Her quest for knowledge, sharp wit, narrative skills and that sense of humour earned respect and affection from the people around her. 

Every where I turn around, every work that I do; the way I deal with people - in every small and big event, I feel her presence and I hear her voice. Many times during a day, I bring her alive as I talk about her to whoever is there with me. Many times, I am alone, listening to her as she would have been saying something and doing something. The past and the present blur; she is within, yet out there engulfing me with one assuring glance...

My first hero to model on was her and I realise she still remains someone I can draw inspiration from.

The web of connections

 


That is Govindu, the travelling singer! Perhaps he is descended from those wandering bards of bygone days! Or maybe he is from the family of minstrels coming to the city in search of a better livelihood! He is from Andhra, staying in 'Urapakkam' a southern suburb, away from the hustle-bustle of metropolitan Chennai. Does he belong to the Chenchu tribe; or is he from Jangama tribe or Dasari tribe?

With the harmonium hanging from his shoulder, he moves along these residential streets of this part of the city once in a month, perhaps. (It may be more than a month also many times.)

A voice that needs no mic, resonating with devotion(Bhakthi) and gently sails with the wind to reach my ears in the morning.

He came this morning , after about a month and half; a lazy and quiet morning just before the usual vendors would fill the air with their sing song calls. Here I was contemplating on the design of the 'kolam' the kolam powder leaving my fingers in flashes of white lines and curves; the rich timbre of that voice calling 'Vittala' from the other end of the street, moving the length of the street to gently nudge me!

I paused my kolam; hurried down the steps to see him in front of our apartment. With just a slight flicker of his eye balls and a subtle lift to face me, he was able to communicate the message that he knew me. Who? The person as the one connected to his last trip here or the person from that particular balcony or another soul who loved the sounds, the music? Later he told me that he remembered my daughter talking with him.

He played the harmonium for a few minutes and turned towards the opposite house. That is when I asked a meaningless question, " Why don't you sing?" Once again with the turn of his head and a quick glance, he conveyed something! Was he trying to point out the meaninglessness of my question? He was singing and moving from the other corner of the street and the street was reverberating with his music for the last 15 minutes. He would continue with his songs anyway. So why did I need to ask him? He has been handed down this music from some distant past and the only way he knows is to share it with other beings and communicate with them through that music. You see the way he shows up for this activity. With the dhoti tied in a particular way, his forehead adorned with Vibhuti (the sacred ash) head held high and with complete dedication he sings.

The music, unrestrained by any grammar, the Bhakthi flowing out in bhajans and Abhang is not his alone. He carries within his voice and music, generations of such music; the sounds fill the air and the ears receive them. All the beings, are in sync with the flow.

I got back to my routines? Did I really? I was immersed in the experience of the music, the tradition of wandering minstrels and Govindu's voice for more than half of the day. I was once again in the Global summit session with my mentor, Bhavana. Brimming with passion, her voice was asking me to observe the continuously repeating patterns ; to stay in the territory, explore and ponder.

I am contemplating on 'SANKOFA' (Go way back and get) .

From where have we modelled the notes(swaras ) that combine to create beautiful sound? All the sounds in nature - the gentle rustle of leaves, the slow waking up of different birds with their calls, the still hot day, the hungry calls of the fledglings and many more - create a symphony. The silence in the open space, the underlying shruti binding all sounds - isn't that the beginning of all music!


The emotions of traditions

Celebrating Savitri pooja/’Karadaiyar Nonbu’ my way.

This ‘vrath’ or nonbu is observed on the day of transition of Sun from Aquarius into Pisces. That usually occurs when the Tamizh month of Masi (Magh – January/February) ends and the next month- Panguni (Phalguna) begins.



Married women observe this ‘Vrath by fasting on the last day of month of Masi for the well-being and long life of their husbands. Sometimes, unmarried women also observe this vrath to get an ideal life partner. Just before the birth of the next month (Panguni), they worship mother goddess and offer the traditional sweet called ‘Karadai’ blending rice floor and jaggery and steaming the round shaped ‘adais. We add handful of cooked (lobhia/chavli – Karamani) black eyed beans and grated coconut also to this. Then with a seasoning of mustard, green chili, ginger and curry leaves make a salty dish as well. One should not forget to keep a cup of butter along with the other offerings.

(How anyone would have thought of these subtle combinations??” I wonder!)   “Don’t men find the need to pray for the well-being and long life of their wives?”

I love the story of Savitri, the determined woman, who challenged Yama, the god of death to bring back her husband alive. Her resourcefulness and keen observation of the lord of death and his language makes Yama yield to her request and arguments. She pleases the lord with her determination and gets three boons – she enables her father-in-law to regain his eyesight and also his kingdom; her parents are blessed with a male child and Yama agrees to her request of begetting 100 children!! She then points out that, being a loving wife, she cannot have her children without her husband alive. Yama, pleased with her presence of mind bestows the three boons.

Ever since I have first heard this story, it is her self-confidence and resourcefulness that have made a deep impact on me. Her father appreciates her intelligence and respects her choice of husband. (even though he comes to know of his limited time on this earth.)

I loved to be around the place when Patti (grand mom) prepared the special delicacies and observed these traditions as there was one aesthetic flow to her movements that blended with all things around her and a rhythm to her processes that soothed me. Then there were those delicacies! Hm…. I can smell the aroma, feel the texture and the taste bursting on my tongue even now!

This set the trend and pattern in my life to follow all the traditions and cook all the delicacies that she created as she continues to be present in all these actions, thoughts, the aroma of cardamom, jaggery boiling or the offerings and prayers. I feel enveloped in her loving hug!

So, I don’t care for the social taboos and stigmas like ‘meant-for-married-women only’; ‘not- for-widows’. I go ahead and observe all those traditions and make the special dishes and offer to God. This time, I paused on the day of ‘Savitri pooja’ – reflected about all these and the great woman.  I started a new invocation and offered a new prayer – calling on Savitri to pass down her resourcefulness, determination and courage to us, all women in need of that. I reached out to all other wise women and nurturing women to guide us through this life. That, of course included a very special prayer to my Patti.   

 


 Web of life

Life on earth is one giant web, consisting of multiple smaller webs within. I came across a veritable treasure of a book, while searching the web for ideas related to the environment. This book is an eBook in pdf form - "Empowering Stewards of Nature-Lessons from our web of life" by Bill Graham, a marine biologist, researcher and educator. He calls himself 'a student of nature'. His passion for the 'interdependence and connectivity', and all energy connections within Nature has deeply resonated with me.   

The feeling of this connection to all creatures of this planet has been growing stronger and deeper within me, more than ever before. (This connection is magnified tenfold occasionally, when the outline of the physical body blurs in my mind.

I can very well visualise Bharathi's total bliss as he embraces every creation as his own! (Subramaniya Bharathiyar was a poet, freedom fighter and social reformer from Tamil Nadu. He was known by the epithet -'Maha kavi' meaning great poet)

"காக்கை குருவி எங்கள் ஜாதி – நீள்  கடலும் மலையும் எங்கள் கூட்டம்" ;

(The crows and sparrows are our kith and kin; Seas and mountains - our hearth and home; We are abound everywhere around)

My connection reaches out to all beings in my environment. The ever present crow community, the pigeon gang, the chirping mynah on the kitchen window sill and my little squirrel friends keep me company through the day. 

The tinkling leaves of the peepal outside my balcony add to the lazy somnolence of post lunch bliss. The huge cows lazily roaming the street, nod their head with a sudden snort and observe me sagely when I step out onto my balcony. And of course the ever vigilant street dogs guarding their territory, keep up a constant tune with their barks in the background. My special bond  with all the plants that we have in our balcony, completes the circle of connectivity. 

The street vendors with their individual trade calls, that  indicates the time of the day carry a myriad of stories, and that is for another day.

How can I not include the connections through social media,  which brings many interesting and sensitive human beings into contact with each other and me. (I go slow with technology, taking tentative steps. However, there are some deep connections in this too!)

I happened to connect with a curious, warm, enterprising woman by the name, Sashirekha Lakshmanan. She loves cooking and creating pretty designs of kolam and writing is one of her passions. She writes short stories and poems in Hindi and Telugu.  One other great passion that she has is to grow and nurture plants. She shares a lot about her plants and posts pictures of them.             







One particular post of the colourful violet  blooms and pink flowers, side by side in  their earthen pots, caught my attention and imagination. The image stayed with me for a long time, that particular day and I expressed it in  the shape of a kolam the next day.  
One particular post of the colourful violet 
blooms and pink flowers, side by side in their earthen pots, caught my attention and imagination. The image stayed with me for a long time, that particular day and I expressed it in  the shape of a kolam the next day.



    

                                                                                     

The colours, orange and pink, have called out to me and so I have let these colours flow from my fingers to become five little flowers! 

I experience the passion and sense the conviction completely when I remember the words of Bill Graham (the author of the eBook): " Nothing exists solely on its own. From the most minuscule atomic particles to the grandest galaxies, the past, the present and the future of every animate and inanimate being in our universe, including human beings, is defined by its interconnection to every thing else." 

When we open up to the sounds, colours and the minute movements of the things around us, we are part of the system and we move with the backing of all other beings and objects in the system.

As Bill Graham quotes Henri JM Nouwen ( Dutch catholic priest, professor and writer), "We can offer a space where people are encouraged to lay aside their occupations and preoccupations and to listen with attention and care to the voices speaking in their own centre." 



Do you have any questions?

  प्रश्नः,  प्रश्न , 'கேள்வி ,  ചോദ്യം (chodyam), 'Prashna' - ప్రశ్న, প্রশ্ন, प्रश्नः,  प्रश्न , ಪ್ರಶ್ನೆ( Praśne ), પ્રશ્ન, سوا...